If you’re experiencing overwhelming premenstrual symptoms each month, you might be wondering: Am I overreacting? Is this normal?

The answer is no—you’re not imagining it, and you’re definitely not alone. These experiences are common among women with Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD), a severe form of PMS that affects mood, body, and daily life.

Common PMDD Symptoms 

PMDD symptoms can show up in the luteal phase (the two weeks before your period) and often feel confusing or even terrifying. Some of the most common include:

• Flu-like body aches or fatigue: Some women feel like they have the flu for just a day each month.

• Recurring thrush or physical discomfort: Symptoms appear like clockwork, sometimes lasting only a day or two.

• Random insomnia: Nights of sleeplessness that make you question your body’s rhythm.

• Wardrobe frustration: Suddenly hating every outfit in your wardrobe, even ones you loved last week.

• Clumsiness and accidental bruises: Tripping, dropping things, or bumping into walls—the mysterious luteal bruises that appear monthly.

• Intrusive thoughts: Unwanted, scary thoughts can pop up during the luteal phase, leaving you feeling mentally raw.

Individually, these symptoms are disorienting. Together, they can make you feel like your body is “broken.” But here’s the truth: this is PMDD, and it’s not your fault.

Why Hearing “Me Too” Makes a Difference

One of the biggest reliefs for women with PMDD is realising they’re not alone. When someone says, “Me too,” everything clicks into place. Naming your experience validates your reality and helps you see that your body isn’t failing you.

How to Cope with PMDD Symptoms

Understanding your luteal phase PMDD signs allows you to plan and cope effectively:

• Track your cycle: Note your mood, energy, and physical symptoms to spot patterns.

• Self-care strategies: Gentle exercise, mindful rest, and planning low-stress days can reduce symptom severity.

• Seek support: Connect with others or a PMDD counsellor to feel understood and get strategies that work.